m already engaged?!

i've been reading this one article mentioning about engagement. it's seemed that you can be engaged when you say yes to a man when he proposes you.. how cool is that. but, not many people know about that. Islam is simple in many ways. That's why Islam is not a religion, but it is a way of life. There's no such thing as wearing this big rock on your finger to show that you've engaged. (even, i would really like to have one like kim kardashian..:p) 

Nabi SAW sendiri ada mengingatkan kepada kita:

“Rahsiakan pertunangan dan iklankan (maklumkan) tentang perkahwinan” (Hadith riwayat Ahmad dari Abdullah bin Zubair Radhiyallahu ‘anhu, dan disahihkan oleh al-Albani di dalam Irwa’ al-Ghalil)

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:)

it's been a long time..

huhu.. was quite busy doing stuffs... there were many problems lately and loads of dramas..

i never thought that someone can be full of hatred and can use anything that they see and have to verbally attack other people.. my friends call it jealousy.. haha.. but what to be jealous about? i'm no celebrity, nor a princess or an heiress.. but i'm cool with it.. just because i know deep down inside her filthy heart, she misses me.. :) that's why she could not stop talking about me.. haha.. me and vanity..




Sabda Rasulullah S.A.W. bermaksud: Awaslah daripada mengumpat kerana mengumpat itu lebih berdosa daripada zina. Sesungguhnya orang melakukan zina, apabila dia bertaubat, Allah akan menerima taubatnya. Dan sesungguhnya orang yang melakukan umpat tidak akan diampunkan dosanya sebelum diampun oleh orang yang diumpat" (Hadis riwayat Ibnu Abib Dunya dan Ibnu Hibbad).




Let's be a better person people.. i know it seems impossible to change this filthy behavior. but, at least we try instead of conform to this so called social activity.. i read one book written by david sedaris, "squirrel seeks chipmunk" the first tale mention about gossiping. it seems that people love to gossip because you want to create a certain bond to the hearer.. thus, you tend to talk about someone else make an issue out of it. and of course, you'll tend to exaggerate and add up a little bit of salt, pepper, and spice to make the story more mouthwatering.

InsyaAllah, if there's a will, there's a way of stopping this.. (such a cliche statement..duhhh) ;)