m already engaged?!

i've been reading this one article mentioning about engagement. it's seemed that you can be engaged when you say yes to a man when he proposes you.. how cool is that. but, not many people know about that. Islam is simple in many ways. That's why Islam is not a religion, but it is a way of life. There's no such thing as wearing this big rock on your finger to show that you've engaged. (even, i would really like to have one like kim kardashian..:p) 

Nabi SAW sendiri ada mengingatkan kepada kita:

“Rahsiakan pertunangan dan iklankan (maklumkan) tentang perkahwinan” (Hadith riwayat Ahmad dari Abdullah bin Zubair Radhiyallahu ‘anhu, dan disahihkan oleh al-Albani di dalam Irwa’ al-Ghalil)

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:)

it's been a long time..

huhu.. was quite busy doing stuffs... there were many problems lately and loads of dramas..

i never thought that someone can be full of hatred and can use anything that they see and have to verbally attack other people.. my friends call it jealousy.. haha.. but what to be jealous about? i'm no celebrity, nor a princess or an heiress.. but i'm cool with it.. just because i know deep down inside her filthy heart, she misses me.. :) that's why she could not stop talking about me.. haha.. me and vanity..




Sabda Rasulullah S.A.W. bermaksud: Awaslah daripada mengumpat kerana mengumpat itu lebih berdosa daripada zina. Sesungguhnya orang melakukan zina, apabila dia bertaubat, Allah akan menerima taubatnya. Dan sesungguhnya orang yang melakukan umpat tidak akan diampunkan dosanya sebelum diampun oleh orang yang diumpat" (Hadis riwayat Ibnu Abib Dunya dan Ibnu Hibbad).




Let's be a better person people.. i know it seems impossible to change this filthy behavior. but, at least we try instead of conform to this so called social activity.. i read one book written by david sedaris, "squirrel seeks chipmunk" the first tale mention about gossiping. it seems that people love to gossip because you want to create a certain bond to the hearer.. thus, you tend to talk about someone else make an issue out of it. and of course, you'll tend to exaggerate and add up a little bit of salt, pepper, and spice to make the story more mouthwatering.

InsyaAllah, if there's a will, there's a way of stopping this.. (such a cliche statement..duhhh) ;)

am i on the right track?

well..i shouldn't ask this as m furthering my study in tesl..but, sometimes i wonder if my career is not in the teaching field.. it doesnt mean that teaching is not a good profession, but, it's not easy to teach you know? we're not just teaching them the subject but also need to motivate them, support them, guide them, mold them in certain way so that they will be a human..this is the process of humanizing people so that they will become good individuals, children, friends, coworkers, bosses, parents, neighbors, or citizens... if a teacher fails to do this, they might going out from school or university being an irresponsible person and if 100 people become like that, it will affect a society.. and of course, sooner or later to the country and to the world.. i know, parents play a big role in molding their kids, but the kids spend most of their time at school or university.. thus, teachers play a big role in determining their future.. teachers need to motivate the kids who already have been the bad apples because of the upbringing by their families.. hoho~~~ if m not a teacher, i really hope that i can be an archaeologist or an interpreter.. i want to travel n maybe stay in korea to improve my korean language.. huuuu~~~ anyway, when i look at my students' faces when they manage to understand what m trying to say n also do well in their exam or assignments, it makes me realize why i involve in the teaching profession at the first place.. :)

he's my edward cullen...

when i first watch twilight, i was on the moon.. thinking if i can get the chance to live in a dream world,  i would love to live in kristen's imaginary world where edward cullen is existed n i'll become the love of his life.. haha..very naive rite.. well, basically he's the dream guy that i really wanna b with..n then, i met him.. he is not as perfect as edward with a muscular abdomen, white teeth, sexy hair, and soft voice... he has many flaws but i love all of the flaws in him... he';s a bit chubby..my kind of guy.. cuddleable..:P he's very nice e/though he's not really romantic but he can be romantic s/times w/out he realizing it.. huhu~~ n at that moment, i'll just smile n look at him.. i never met a guy like him that can make me cry n love him at the same time... m a weeper now as he is really pampering me with his gentleness.. his parents went to my house to meet my parents couple weeks ago. it was really scary as i've never experience this thing b4.. but Alhamdulillah as my dad was really ok with it w/out many questions..  hope, we can get engaged as early as i can be a loyal wife for him.. huhu...love u baby... miss u a lot... nite...

it feels sucks...

huhuhu~~~ i really don't know what to do right now.. i've been in a relationship for 1 year n two months already.. my dear's parents want to set up a date for our engagement.. but they met me first and asked me directly.. huhuh..and they expect me to ask my dad bout this..huhu..how shud i start? i'd never talk bout my relationship with him..n now they expect me to tell him that m getting engaged? i was hoping that my mom will help me on this.. but, she just told my dad n my dad kept quite..=( she told me that my dad was sort of agree coz if he disagrees, he will say something..huhuhu...but i really think that i need to tell him directly.. but i can't.. m a gurl..errr...a woman.. but, i feel like m his little girl..i'm stuck hee..i dunno wot to do..huhuhu

hoping that guys can be psychic... @.@

I just read bout how different man and woman are.. in terms of way of thinking.. relating to the previous fights with the love of my life before this make me thinking and hoping that it is cool if men are psychics... women ae tend to be having a different and unique way of telling i don't like bananas and stop treating me with banana split when we have a fight to a guy.. we are giving these hopeless signals to guys as they would never read our minds and understand what we are trying to convey... and again, how many women or gurls feel when their hubby or bf having problem to focus to the conversation when they are watching football at the mamak stall. huuuu... i try to like the famous sport event that men created way back before i was born... but, it fails to trigger any excitement in me... but then, how much different man and woman is, i still love man...love u dad, brothers n of course the love of my life...miss u a lot...

1st day of blogging..:P

duh...i know that this is the lamest thing ever, to start blogging at the age of 25... i admit that m not a technology savvy...haha..but, m thinking, if i would die one day, people whom i love can read these thoughts of mine.. ^.^
sometimes, well.. i mean most all the time i actually didn't say what i actually want to say.. most of people do that..rite? it's not that m being hypocrite, but there's a need to care the others' feeling.. it's good if u can be 100 % honest to people..but, it's wrong to hurt one's feeling juz 4 the sake of being honest rite? i mean, u can b honest but come on..don't u have other words that are more acceptable? do u have to be that mean? 
it's better to juz shut ur mouth up n walk away..